Inspired by Ashley who a) re-did my blog (and never once laughed at any of my horrible passwords) b) is wonderfully talented and c) who reminded me that not knowing computer design makes sense if I’ve never been taught COMPUTER DESIGN.
1. Not blogging enough.
2. The music on your ipod.
3. The behavior of anyone but yourself.
4. Not understanding anything you haven’t been taught.
5. Buying Us Weekly.
6. Photos you publish on Instagram.
7. Explaining how you feel.
8. Buying movie tickets to Nicolas Cage movies and thus encouraging him to continue acting.
9. Forgetting.
10. Choices you make as a parent, in the best interest of your child.
11. Having a house that looks less like the cover of “House and Home” and looks more like your home.
12. Needing time for yourself.
13. Anything you did before you could drive.
14. Grammatical errors.
15. Letting them go.
16. Your appearance. You are beautiful.
17. Any type of bodily function.
18. Pointing out an error.
19. The quirks that make you different from the other six billion people on Earth.
20. Respectfully disagreeing.



I LOVE IT. Now it’s as pretty as you are! Well, almost. :)
Yes to all of this except Number 8. My love of The Cage is one guilty pleasure I never felt any guilt over.
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE. More like obsessed. With all of it. The redesign, the post, YOU.
AHHHHHHHHH THIS IS SO PRETTYYYYYYYY!!!!!!
Love the new design! And thank you for #15 – I needed that one today.
So true! All of it. Also, love the new design! xoxo
Oooh, I like it a lot! Great new design. :)
Amen, sisterfriend to all of it! and yay for the new design – looks so great! ashley is amazing.
#13 made me snort.
Love the new design! Very pretty!
LOVE LOVE LOVE SOOOO MUCH!!!!
Love this and love the new blog design. Makes me even more keenly aware of how crappy my blog “design” looks. Actually maybe that’s something I should stop apologizing for; my crappy blog layout.
Love these- all so true!
And our new look here is cool. :-)
Love this and love the new design and love you!
Love the design! Congrats!
And also, THANK YOU for #11. I need that reminder too often.
I love it! It looks like you! And look who got all fancy with a .com!
11 is something I struggle with. Way more than is respectable.
i had a hard time reading this post because all i could think was “YOUR BLOG IS SO PRETTY!!!” but really, love it. love you rock star.
loving the new look over here my friend! gosh, the girl with the cute shoes and the suitcase were around for so long- i loved that look, but a change is a good thing! it’s sassy and fun and very you! miss your face and dying to catch up. xo
YES! I am not going to apologize anymore. Love the colorful new look!
Agreed, prepare for my instagram account to blow up! I love the new layout! :)
YES, YES, YES!!
Also – the new look is fabulous.
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I reciprocate with #19..and who knows…aybe this is your new ground to grow even more now!!
this was perfect, and the reality check i kinda sorta needed tonight.
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Seriously, so in love with this!! Thank you sooo much – I would love to share this on my Blog if you wouldnt mind?? :) xx
great post brandylu!
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